People often question me about raising 3 kids and think parenting multiple children is one of the hardest obstacles in life. Learn how becoming a mom of three has taught me numerous things about living. Finding time for myself is a lot easier when the kids entertain each other. This is just one of the positive benefits of having three kids. My husband and I often joke about how different things were for our first kid. The time we had for each other started to shift after the second and third children. Raising 3 kids wasn’t easy in the beginning.